Home                                                                                                                 Go to Sacred Living

 

You Are NOT Responsible For How Other People React To You
by Deborah Skye King

 

 


Editor's Note from David Arenson: In 1991, Skye had a spiritual awakening which transformed her life. She was guided to go to Central America and ended up spending the next couple of years living in the jungle.  She lived secluded in the mountains, surrounded by nature, monkeys, and incredible Morpho butterflies. It was there she discovered the essence of life, the truth of her being and the magnificent truth of nature.

One of the core beliefs that I touch upon in my book, Discovering and Living Your Soul’s Purpose, is that you are not responsible for other peoples emotional reactions, ever. Most people believe that they are and that breeds a society of victimhood, disempowered individuals who stay in a constant flux of emotional toxicity, leading to co-dependent unhealthy relationships. Sound familiar?

I would like to point out the difference here between being responsible to your own emotions and how that differs from taking on the reactions of another, which has nothing to do with you.

Most peoples reactions are embedded in the past and when you trigger an emotion that is not healed, released in love or forgiven, it comes back into the moment as if it still at the original point of it’s creation and responds in a negative, unhealthy manner. Most experience this as mistrust, guilt, unworthiness, anger, fear, frustration or anxiety, there are many more emotions that can come through like rage or the flight or fight response which is conditioned into the body’s chemical releases at a young age when trauma set in.

One thing that you can personally do is recognize within yourself that when you feel an emotional reaction coming up within you, stay calm and observe it, ask where it first originated or why it is now present and what is asking to be healed, you might be very surprised by the answers you receive. When you see others reacting strongly in a negative way to your conversations, opinions or choices in life, it really has nothing at all to do with you, it is based on their own past or present beliefs and most peoples beliefs come from their dysfunctional family patterns, generational inheritance on a cellular level, experiences which are seeking enlightenment and healing. The best and most influential relationship you can have with that person is to observe their reaction and continue on with what ever it is that you were speaking of, or discontinue and honor the other person inability to digest your own perception or ideas at the moment. Not everyone moves at the same pace, some people need more time than others to process what has happened, some people are unconscious of their pain and the origin of it’s traumatic miasm, it can take months to move through an experience or years even to recognize that you are experiencing deep pain within. You can reach out and ask for help and guidance, coaching or receive a healing from a qualified professional that can bring you gently yet firmly to a space of self-love and unconditional acceptance.

 *Definition of a Miasm: a hereditary genetic energetic disturbance or burden as it represents the body’s energetic weak-spot.

 

 

 

Please "Add a Comment" at the bottom of this page or blog in our Forum here
Please do not use apostrophes in your comments.
 
 


About the Author


Deborah Skye King is a Bestselling Author and North America’s #1 Soul Therapist.  She is the author of Discovering & Living Your Soul’s Purpose: The Keys To Your Future, President of Soul Therapy™ International, Founder of The International Association of Professional Past Life Regression Therapy & Training Institute, Director of The School of Inner Light, Creator of The StarPower* System for Female Entrepreneurs and  8 Weeks To Discover Your Soul’s Purpose.

Skye is globally recognized at the world’s leading authority on Soul Therapy and North America’s #1 Soul Therapist. Her research for the past 30+ years on humanities ancient and stellar origins has allowed her to delve deeply into the subconscious mind exploring parallel, past and future realities.

For all media inquires please email media@soultherapy.ca
W: http://soultherapy.ca

 

 

 

Add a Comment   
    Recent Comments
03-15-2017 09:13:03
hxy3.15 jordan 4 bottega veneta outlet ferragamo outlet louis vuitton outlet christian louboutin outlet polo outlet coach outlet online fitflops uk ralph lauren outlet ralph lauren ray-ban sunglasses pandora outlet coach outlet online coach outlet online vans shoes michael kors handbags cheap ray bans nike outlet store louis vuitton outlet cheap jordan shoes michael kors outlet clearance mcm outlet oakley sunglasses true religion jeans sale michael kors outlet michael kors outlet online hollister canada polo outlet cheap ray bans ray ban sunglasses adidas trainers mulberry handbags coach outlet clearance hollister nike trainers coach factory outlet kobe 9 elite ralph lauren uk swarovski jewelry nike huarache polo outlet stores coach outlet coach factory outlet true religion outlet swarovski crystal cheap jerseys wholesale michael kors outlet clearance kate spade handbags mulberry handbags ralph lauren ralph lauren outlet oakley sunglasses reebok trainers rolex watches michael kors outlet online swarovski jewelry swarovski crystal michael kors outlet clearance nike free 5.0 christian louboutin shoes true religion outlet uk cheap oakley sunglasses christian louboutin outlet instyler ionic styler nike blazer pas cher longchamp outlet tory burch outlet michael kors outlet stores nfl jerseys oakley sunglasses sale juicy couture tracksuit louis vuitton air max 90 fitflops shoes michael kors handbags outlet adidas uk store polo ralph lauren longchamp outlet online longchamp bag polo ralph lauren nike air max uk prada outlet ferragamo outlet louis vuitton outlet stores adidas uk michael kors handbags outlet michael kors handbags longchamp handbags michael kors outlet michael kors outlet online rolex watches outlet michael kors outlet kobe bryant shoes ray ban sunglasses air max 90 ray ban sunglasses thomas sabo charms hollister michael kors outlet clearance oakley sunglasses wholesale gucci site ufficiale basketball shoes michael kors outlet michael kors canada louis vuitton outlet true religion uk outlet louis vuitton borse ralph lauren ray ban sunglasses hollister shirts fitflops sale clearance swarovski crystal louis vuitton outlet cheap ray ban sunglasses coach outlet longchamp handbags michael kors wallets polo ralph lauren coach factory outlet polo pas cher cheap mlb jerseys hollister sale mont blanc outlet louis vuitton outlet nhl jerseys nike roshe run los angeles lakers ralph lauren outlet nike outlet oakley sunglasses sale michael kors outlet ralph lauren louis vuitton uk louis vuitton handbags cheap ray ban sunglasses cheap jordans michael kors handbags outlet gucci outlet online ralph lauren pas cher kate spade handbags cheap nhl jerseys air jordan 4 coach factory outlet louis vuitton outlet clearance michael kors uk pandora jewellery ralph lauren outlet borse louis vuitton nike roshe run hollister uk coach outlet online nike roshe cheap nba jerseys rolex watches for sale cheap football shirts coach factory outlet iphone case uk prada handbags louis vuitton outlet christian louboutin shoes cartier watches for sale louis vuitton outlet stores oakley sunglasses mcm backpack tory burch outlet online pandora jewelry mulberry bags nike mercurial louis vuitton handbags michael kors outlet hermes outlet nike free running oakley sunglasses oakley sunglasses wholesale michael kors handbags christian louboutin outlet mizuno running shoes kate spade uk coach outlet online michael kors outlet clearance converse shoes sale cheap nike shoes burberry canada coach outlet online christian louboutin shoes michael kors factory outlet michael kors wallets for women nike free run jordan shoes dior outlet burberry outlet nfl jerseys wholesale michael kors outlet beats by dre swarovski outlet louis vuitton outlet stores cheap replica watches cheap oakley sunglasses michael kors outlet store michael kors outlet ray ban sunglasses ralph lauren polo shirts christian louboutin uk ugg outlet ralph lauren polo gucci outlet michael kors outlet cheap oakley sunglasses hollister clothing swarovski jewelry rolex outlet polo ralph lauren polo ralph lauren rolex watches foamposite shoes kd shoes asics lebron james shoes michael kors outlet clearance tory burch shoes christian louboutin sale ed hardy clothing michael kors handbags air max 2015 air max uk swarovski uk longchamp handbags nba jerseys cheap nfl jerseys true religion jeans michael kors uk michael kors factory outlet michael kors oakley sunglasses louis vuitton outlet chrome hearts nike outlet store supra shoes los angeles lakers jerseys marc jacobs sale reebok outlet store new balance shoes polo ralph lauren coach outlet mac cosmetics chrome hearts michael kors handbags coach outlet online coach factory outlet mac cosmetics sale gucci handbags true religion sale cheap ray bans lebron shoes cheap jordans oakley sunglasses hermes belts michael kors fitflops shoes adidas nmd polo outlet store true religion outlet burberry outlet louis vuitton outlet nike uk store gucci outlet online cheap ray ban sunglasses gucci outlet louis vuitton outlet ray ban sunglasses coach outlet online true religion jeans oakley sunglasses louis vuitton coach factory outlet fitflops outlet michael kors outlet gucci outlet ralph lauren polo swarovski outlet coach outlet store online louis vuitton outlet clearance yeezy boost 350 omega outlet louis vuitton ecco outlet coach outlet online coach factory outlet coach outlet online coach factory outlet michael kors outlet online coach handbags outlet ray ban sunglasses uk coach outlet cartier watches for women beats headphones michael kors giuseppe zanotti shoes longchamp bags true religion jeans cazal sunglasses chrome hearts outlet true religion jeans ugg uk oakley sunglasses wholesale cheap oakley sunglasses cazal outlet nike roshe run adidas shoes fitflops sale clearance ysl outlet soccer jerseys coach outlet online air max uk beats headphones cheap jordan shoes hollister clothing true religion jeans ferragamo outlet michael kors handbags mont blanc pens ferragamo outlet louis vuitton online louis vuitton outlet store tory burch outlet online louis vuitton pandora outlet coach factory outlet ferragamo shoes giuseppe zanotti outlet hollister clothing cheap oakley sunglasses coach outlet store michael kors outlet clearance cheap nfl jersey gucci bags air max 90 polo ralph lauren louis vuitton uk swarovski crystal mulberry handbags hollister clothing true religion jeans tory burch outlet burberry outlet sale michael kors outlet clearance valentino shoes cheap snapbacks jordan shoes ray ban sunglasses michael kors outlet true religion outlet beats by dre
By :hxy
03-04-2017 07:48:47

pandora bracelet

ray ban prescription sunglasses

mlb.com

Cheap Ray Ban

air jordan shoes

prada purses

coach outlet online

Hugo Boss Store

prada outlet online

michael kors outlet

ray ban polarized

nike australia

moncler outlet

michael kors bags

michael kors handbags outlet

burberry outlet online

ray ban wayfarer

Basketball shoes

michael kors outlet

Mizuno Shoes

pandora necklace charms

air jordan shoes

pandora rings

coach bag

Jordan retro

kate spade

coach purse

kate spade handbags

nike jordan shoes

pandora rings

chanel

nfl shop

burberry scarf

prada bag

michael kors canada

kate spade outlet

moncler mens jackets

michael kors outlet

nike lebron shoes

pandora charms sale online

abercrombie outlet

Mizuno Wave

michael kors outlet

china wholesale

michael kors outlet

coach outlet

prada us

michael kors italy

coach handbags

kate spade outlet

ray ban prescription glasses

ugg australia

Oakley Holbrook

kate spade outlet

burberry outlet

oakley frogskins

timberland uk

ray ban sunglasses

michael kors outlet

sunglasses hut

pandora rings

michael kors uk

Longchamp Outlet

Mizuno Running Shoes

nike huarache shoes

burberry online

salomon hiking shoes

huaraches shoes

pandora rings

pandora charms

michael kors outlet online

polo online

coach bags

pandora australia

pandora charms

pandora rings

abercrombie and fitch

pandora jewelry

prada outlet online

air jordan retro

coach outlet

Coach Outlet Online

pandora jewelry

coach purses

pandora.com

oakley australia

paul smith sale

KD 8 shoes

snow boots

Prada bags

nike id

cheap moncler jacket

abercrombie outlet

burberry outlet

abercrombie paris

canada goose jacket

oakley frogskins sunglasses

nike shoes

coach factory outlet

michael kors outlet

MIZUNO Shop US

coach outlet online

nfl jerseys

china factory sale

Adidas Yeezy Boost 350

coach outlet

nike huarache

moncler jacket

ugg boots

football jerseys

louis vuitton outlet

chanel bag

pandora charms black friday

cheap ray ban sunglasses

moncler jacket mens

prada sunglasses

coach outlet

michael kors outlet

abercrombie us

coach sunglasses

cheap coach purse

major league baseball

pandora princess ring

louis vuitton factory outlet

coach outlet

prada sale

coach factory outlet

Nike KD 8

prada outlet prices

Nike Air Jordan

oakley sunglasses

ralph lauren

michael kors handbags

coach handbags

landinggear

ugg slippers

Prada Factory Outlet

Ralph Lauren

prada outlet

basketball jerseys

pandora charms uk

CHanel Factory Outlet

mlb store

sunglasses outlet

burberry scarf

burberry scarfs

pandora bracelet

Nike Air Jordan

michael kors tote

shoes online

michael kors us

hockey jerseys

pandora uk

adidas australia

nike shox shoes

Yeezy 350

Hugo Boss Outlet

burberry outlet

Nike Jordan Shoes

Yeezy Boost 350

canada goose sale

kate spade canada

véronique Billat

pandora charms sale clearance

coach factory outlet online

Prada Outlet

Michael Kors Outlet

prada bags outlet

michael kors outlet

Nike Jordans

shoes sale

brand sunglasses

prada outlet

ray ban outlet

nike air huarache

official prada site

prada outlet online

Mizuno Shop Japan

ugg uk

official michael kors

coach online

moncler sale

michael kors handbags

oakley sunglasses

Jordan Retro

Coach Sunglasses Outlet

coach australia

Chanel Outlet

moncler jacket

mk outlet

ray ban aviator

paul smith uk

kate spade outlet online

adidas yeezy boost 350

kate spade bags

sunglasses hut

burberry online

michael kors outlet

kate spade outlet online

prada online

prada bags

Oakley Holbrook sunglasses

jordan shoes

prada handbags

landing gears

nike free run

moncler outlet

basketball jerseys

ray ban eyeglasses

coach outlet

paul smith

michael kors

pandora rings jewelry

michael kors outlet

Oakley Outlet

burberry outlet canada

Coach Outlet Store

adidas australia

moncler outlet

baseball jerseys

nike shoes australia

coach shoes

Michael Kors Outlet

michael kors outlet

sunglasses sm

abercrombie outlet

nike outlet

abercrombie outlet

michael kors tote

yeezy boost 350

mlb shop

prada factory outlet online

Coach Outlet

coach carter

nike com

huaraches

abercrombie fitch

pandora rings

prada bags on sale

moncler clothing

kate spade black friday

yeezy boost 350 shoes

prada outlet

jimmy choo australia

michael kors purses outlet

Chanel bags Outlet

burberry canada

kate spade bags outlet

asics shoes

lzm3.4
By :lzm00
02-25-2017 03:49:45

ray bans

mont blanc

miami heat jerseys

jordan 11

polo ralph lauren

true religion jeans

louis vuitton outlet

louboutin shoes

mbt outlet store

louis vuitton bags

mcm belt

adidas outlet store

ralph lauren polo

adidas boost running shoes

michael kors outlet

michael kors outlet online

louis vuitton handbags

coach outlet online

coach outlet online

pandora bracelet

pandora charms

gucci handbags

ralph lauren

golden state warriors jerseys

michael kors purses

pandora rings

air max thea

burberry scarf

michael kors outlet clearance

oakley sunglasses cheap

timberland store

true religion jeans

michael kors outlet clearance

omega speedmaster

cheap nba jerseys

polo ralph lauren

louis vuitton outlet online

nike free flyknit

fitflop shoes

louis vuitton outlet

ralph lauren outlet

air jordan shoes

adidas nmd shoes

vans for sale

adidas nmd

true religion jeans outlet

under armour shoes

cheap jordans

pandora jewelry outlet

gucci handbags

2017.2.25chenlixiang
By :chenlixiang

[1]

Tags

Spiritual & Healing Practices | Healthy Lifestyles | Community | Arts | Find Practitioners & Orgs | Forums
Our Store | Aldea Verde de Costa Rica | Submissions | Editors | Terms and Conditions | About Us / Contact Us

 

Disclaimer. Each category is under the supervision of dedicated editors who are passionate about their topic and believe that raising people's awareness is one way to make a difference in the world. You may or may not agree with all that is presented. Since respectful discourse is an excellent way to learn and grow, we welcome comments on articles and your participation on the Forums.

  © 2010-2017 Inspiring Change, LLC     REGISTER      LOGIN Web by MacDaddi | Developed by AWE